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The Symphony of Giving and Receiving

Tammy Choleva • Apr 20, 2024

Have you ever thought of the harmonious balance between giving and receiving as being like a beautiful symphony? The Bible is replete with both. Nonprofits overflow with the need and opportunity of both. Life, in general, depends on the push and pull of both.


For CES to fulfill our mission, we depend on the generous giving of donors who are willing to partner with us in supporting The Cornerstone Christian School. For CES to fulfill our mission, we must receive so we may give. To successfully run this nonprofit, it is important to keep in balance both giving and receiving. If CES only ever receives but never gives, we have failed to fulfill our mission of helping to support The Cornerstone Christian School. If we only ever give and never receive… well, that is impossible. We cannot give what we have not received to give.


If sufficient individual donors do not step forward, and even if they do, we can seek grants to help support our mission. While grants can certainly be a useful tool, especially for fledgling nonprofits, it is important to do our due diligence and study the fine print, to make sure there are not burdensome conditions to the grants. Related to this, I heard an interesting parable the other day on WIHS-FM 104.9 Christian radio out of Middletown, Connecticut. Dr. Tony Evans was preaching during this particular segment. This is the gist of a tale that he shared to drive home his point.


Once there was a pig farmer who brought a slew of pigs to the market to be slaughtered. The butcher asked how the farmer obtained all his pigs. He said it was easy. He first invited all the little piglets in the area to come for free food. Those piglets brought other piglets. He offered free food day after day after day. Eventually, the mamas and papas of the piglets also started coming to enjoy the free food. Then one day the farmer added a fence to the north side. The piglets and pigs came again for the free food. Then the farmer added a fence to the east side. The piglets and pigs continued coming for free food. The farmer then added a fence to the south side. The piglets and pigs continued coming. The farmer then added a fence with an open door to the west side. Once all the piglets and pigs entered the pen, the farmer closed in the piglets and pigs to be able to bring them to the market to be slaughtered. Moral: What appears to be free may not really be free.


So, yes, our nonprofit can and will seek grants as additional sources of revenue. However, in addition to researching grants and their fine print conditions, we also must be sure to register to solicit in the state from where the grant comes.


The bottom line is that CES exists to support CCS. For us to support CCS, we need help finding generous givers who give, so that we may receive, so that we may give to CCS, so that the students and faculty of CCS may receive, so that they may be better equipped to give to their communities and the world. The rise and fall of receiving and giving goes on and on, all to the glory of the One who gave His all for all to have the opportunity to receive so that they may in turn give. Will you join us in the beautiful symphony of giving and receiving for the glory of God?


"And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 4:19, ESV)


Big Dream Blog

By Tammy Choleva 06 Apr, 2024
Time did not exist before God created it. Genesis 1:1 ( NIV ) tells us, “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.” The initial moment of creation marks the initial moment of time. God, who has always existed, lives outside of time; yet at His initiation of creation, He created time for man’s benefit. Even knowing this truth, have you ever caught yourself saying, “I could get so much more accomplished if only I had more hours in a day!”? The truth is that God perfectly created time in 24-hour increments. God did not need to create a better system of time and does not need to improve upon it now. However, it is quite possible that our use of time may need to be refined or perhaps even overhauled. How do my thoughts about time relate to Cornerstone Educational Support, Inc.? For the past few weeks, I have been wrapped up in the closing details following The Cornerstone Christian School’s winter fundraisers. This morning, it occurred to me that despite my goal of sharing weekly CES blog posts, I missed a couple... or so I thought. Imagine my shock tonight when I looked to see when I last posted and saw that it was four weeks ago! That’s when time idioms and adages made their way into my thoughts: Time flies. Time waits for no one. Lost time cannot be found. How about this poem by Dr. Seuss? How did it get so late so soon? It’s night before it’s afternoon. December is here before it’s June. My goodness how the time has flewn. How did it get so late so soon? I am praying for CES to be able to make the best use of time. We have so many hopes and dreams for how we can help CCS reach its greatest potential. May we count on you to come alongside us on this journey?
By Tammy Choleva 02 Mar, 2024
I was listening to a Christian radio station this past Wednesday morning (WIHS FM at 104.9). The featured In Touch teaching by Dr. Charles Stanley immediately caught my attention. It was on the topic of what to do when God closes a door to something that you thought for sure He had opened. The church that my husband and I attend has been looking for a new location for many months now. There have been a couple really strong leads, ones that the leadership thought for sure were from the Lord. In the end, those leads turned into dead-ends. The summation of Dr. Stanley’s teaching is that God alone holds and is sovereign over all the pieces to the puzzle of life. We only see but a fragment of those pieces. He sees every single crevice and angle of every single puzzle piece. God sees what we do not see; He knows what we do not know. So, if God closes a door — even a door that we were certain He had opened in the first place, we need to trust that He is redirecting us due to an abundance of His love and care. We need to trust that He knows that if we knew all that He knows, then we would not try to force our way through that door that He has now closed. We need to trust God to be redirecting our path toward a new door that He will open at precisely the time He wants it opened, because His plan and timing are always best. Meanwhile, the previous morning, I was listening to the same radio station and caught a teaching by Dr. Tony Evans on his The Alternative program. In that teaching, Dr. Evans shared a testimony. He had been part of a big gospel crusade being held at a stadium. A raging thunderstorm was heading their way and was projected to hit at the time the crusade was supposed to start, likely resulting in the crusade being canceled. A group of pastors got together to pray and “safely” asked God to intervene. As the storm advanced, a woman nearby asked if she could pray with them. She proceeded to boldly declare to God that He controls even “the winds and the water.” She declared to God that He knew how much time, energy, and resources went into organizing the crusade. She declared to God that if He did not stop the storm from hitting the crusade overhead — thus leading to the crusade being canceled, then His name would be shamed because thousands who could have heard the gospel would not hear the gospel. She then called in faith for Jesus to address the storm so as not to shame His name but instead to glorify it. Dr. Evans continued his testimony by saying that he and his wife witnessed with their own eyes the parting of the rain clouds over the stadium. They literally split in two, with storm clouds raining down on both ends and sides of the stadium but not overhead. Everyone attending the crusade remained dry. These are my takeaways from these two “teachings” and how they can be applied to Cornerstone Educational Support, Inc.: Though God opened the door for CES to be conceived and birthed, He has not yet opened doors leading us to public funding that will enable us to fulfill our mission. We need to not get discouraged but to instead continue moving forward, all while listening intently to any redirections from Him. We need to be careful not to force doors open that God has called to be closed, while trusting Him to open the doors He wants to be opened in His perfect timing. We need to ask God to help us come alongside Him by putting aside any of our plans that are not from Him and that will not bring glory to His name. We need to trust that God is sovereign and is more than able to control "the winds and the water" that threaten to overcome CES. We need to boldly and confidently declare to God that since CES was initiated to help CCS victoriously run the race to which God has called the school since opening its doors in 1981, that since CES is His 501(c)(3) and not ours, and that since He paved the way for CES to exist, that we trust Him to bring the results that will most glorify Him. "Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever... He stilled the storm to a whisper; the waves of the sea were hushed" ( NIV , Psalm 107: 1 & 29).
By Tammy Choleva 14 Feb, 2024
I have a family member who has survived a battle with cancer. God is good all the time. All the time, God is good. I have another family member who is currently battling cancer (a resurgence of the same kind of cancer that she previously battled over 20 years ago, only it’s more aggressive this time). Still, God is good all the time. All the time, God is good. Last Wednesday, a different family member passed away after a brief but intense battle against cancer. Even still, God is good all the time. All the time, God is good. Also this past Wednesday, another family member passed away after a long health battle. Yet still, God is good all the time. All the time, God is good. God’s goodness does not change according to our circumstances. Our circumstances do not determine God’s goodness. God is good all the time. All the time, God is good. Not only is God good all the time, but He is also worthy of our praise all the time. Our circumstances also do not dictate God’s worthiness of our praise. When I was a fairly new follower of Jesus, my husband and I struggled to pay our bills. In fact, our dismal financial situation at the time led me to submit my life to the Lord. Even after giving my life to Jesus in 1991 (and my husband not long after me), we still had to walk through the challenges of the consequences of our prior poor financial decisions. After all, God did not promise to remove the consequences. Instead, He promised to lead us through them. We just needed to trust and follow Him. One morning, not long after giving my life to Jesus, I was terribly anxious about not being able to pay the mortgage. In the midst of that anxiety, the Lord placed on my heart the Bible passage at I Thessalonians 5:16-18, which says, “Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” (NIV). I remember responding to the Lord, “How can I be joyful about not being able to pay the mortgage?” The Lord answered, “My Word doesn’t say to be joyful about. My Word says to be joyful in.” I paused then asked Jesus, “How?” He impressed on my heart, “Name one blessing I have given you.” I thought then did. “Name another,” He repeated. Again, I did. After several back-and-forth moments, I was dancing around the house and singing praises to the King of kings and Lord of lords. How does this relate to CES? As a new 501(c)(3), we are still getting our feet wet regarding how to best meet the support test as a public charitable giving organization. As I pointed out a couple posts ago, overall charitable giving (for nonprofits in general) has decreased over recent years. Even — and perhaps especially — as a new nonprofit, we are feeling the impact of that decrease. If we were to lack awareness of God’s goodness all the time, regardless of our circumstances, it would be easy to get sucked into a world of worry. Instead, we do know and trust that God is good all the time. All the time, God is good. God is worthy of our praise all the time. All the time, God is worthy of our praise. So, we shall trust Him to lead us to the perfect funding in His perfect timing, because He is a perfect God. 
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